Learn How To Satisfied Your S*x Urge On Mobile Calls: Tips Below

To have great phone sex, you need to let loose, stop being self-conscious, and be ready to get turned on, no matter how silly you may feel at first.

  • Pick a time when you’re both alone and free to let your inhibitions loose. Your plan won’t work if you’re rolling around in bed, feeling hot and heavy, while your partner is shivering in the rain outside the library.
  • If your partner is new to phone sex or feeling unsure, consider sending them this article, or reading it together.
  • Don’t forget that you can always discuss what you’d like to do during phone sex before you start.
  • Tidy up your room and make the bed
  • Dim the lights, perhaps set up some candles
  • Play soft music
  • Have a bath or shower (and a shave, if you like)
  • Think of a role play to spice up the call (you two skinny dipping, etc.)
  • Put on (or take off!) your favorite, sexiest clothes and underwear
  • Set out some sex toys
  • Turn yourself on by gently caressing your body, or thinking about your lover, or imagining sexual encounters you’ve had or would like to have… but don’t let yourself get too turned on just yet — that’s what the phone call is for!
  • If it helps you relax, spend a few minutes chatting before you get started… just don’t let yourselves get distracted from your sexy goal.
  • A low, soft tone of voice or heavy breathing can help set the mood, but don’t force it if doing so is unnatural for you: speaking and breathing comfortably in your normal tone of voice will be sexier than an awkwardly forced attempt at sounding sexy.
  • How much you miss them, or wish they were with you
  • What you would like to do if they were with you
  • What you’re wearing and how you look in it
  • What you’re doing
  • How you’re feeling
  • Ask your partner to describe any of the above to you
  • Ask for “advice” — for example, “should I start playing with my underwear?”
  • Tell them what you’d like them to do, if they’re willing.
  • Don’t feel bad if you’re not comfortable with touching yourself — you can still let them know that you’re enjoying simply listening to them.
  • You might want to start out slow: begin with tame descriptions like “first, I’d stroke your hair” or “I really like the way your chest looks in a T-shirt”, before moving on to steamier things like “then I’d kiss your neck” or “remember when you did that thing to me in the shower?”
  • As always, how explicit you get, and how quickly, is entirely up to you.
  • Moaning is a great way to communicate how good you’re feeling. However, there’s no need to to do this if you’re not comfortable with it. You can start with just letting your breath go at first, to help bring out little moans into louder moans.
  • Let them know when they’ve described or done something you really enjoyed. Likewise, don’t be afraid to tell them when you don’t enjoy something — it’ll allow the two of you to move on to something else that you’ll both find enjoyable.
  • Don’t feel bad if your partner doesn’t join you in masturbating. If you don’t want to masturbate alone, ask them before you start if they’d be interested in joining you. Likewise, don’t get anxious if they start masturbating and you don’t want to — you’re not obligated to join them. Just enjoy listening to them pleasure themselves.
  • Don’t worry if one or both of you fail to reach orgasm. Think of it as the icing on the cake, rather than the goal of the exercise.
  • If you reach orgasm before your partner is ready to stop, don’t go quiet! Continue talking to them, describing what you’re feeling and imagining.
  • There’s no rule as to how quickly you should end the call after finishing. Some people prefer ending the call as soon as their breathing has gone back to normal, whereas others prefer to stay on the line and chat.
  • Let your partner know how much you enjoyed yourself before you end the call.